Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Making The Switch From Disposable To Cloth


Cloth diapers never even crossed my mind with Areyna. My interest began when I was pregnant with Zeke but I never followed through. My interest began to grow when I was pregnant with Micaiah and when my friend, Rita made the switch I really got the itch to do it. She has a GREAT POST reviewing several different styles/types along with her personal experience with them, which gave me a great place to start my research! I remembered my friend, Emily, using cloth with her first two, while living in Africa, so I called her to see if she still had them, if she liked them, and if she wasn't using them if she'd be willing to sell them to me.

Within 4 days I had the box of cloth diapers sitting on my doorstep and I couldn't wait to get them on Cai's cute little bootie!

One reason why I hesitated to go this route was because I didn't think it was even worth it now because we were already on our third baby and he is almost 11 months old.

Good thing I'm a numbers girl, though. I did a little number crunching for you so you can see what I saw. Let the numbers speak for themselves.

Keep in mind that these figures are very relative, but should put a little perspective on the monetary benefit for making the switch, even this late in the game. Now, if you can get those GREAT diaper deals by stacking coupons, store deals and store coupons, like I had been getting, you can get a pack of diapers for between $4-$6. This is way cheaper than getting the big boxes at the warehouses because the warehouses rarely do sales and don't accept coupons. So, again, these figures are going to be very relative!

Let's say we just average $5 a pack which has 45 diapers in them. Again, each pack is different and some have less diapers and some have more, so we're just averaging here.
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Let's start with babies first year:
53 - weeks in a year
12 of which your baby will use at least 10 diapers a day
41 of which your baby will use at least 5 diapers a day
That is: 840 diapers in the first 12 weeks
1435 diapers in the remaining 41 weeks
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2,275 diapers in just the first year alone (AT LEAST!)
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That's 50.5 packs of diapers w/ 45 diapers per pack
@ $5 a pack
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TOTAL : $252.50 (if you buy them at regular price you are looking at about $450)

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Babies Second Year (and most of the time third year as well, if not more)
@ 5 diapers a day/53 weeks a year - 45 diapers/pack @ $5 a pack

That's: 1855 diapers a year
which is roughly 41.2 packs a year
TOTAL: $206.11 for every additional year

If your baby is in diapers for ONLY 3 years you'll be spending $664.72 in disposable diapers, not including the wipes. IF you can find them for $5 a pack and IF your child is potty trained by 3.
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I spent $250 for Emily's used cloth diapers, which have already been through 2 kids, and are still in great shape. I should be set for the rest of our kids!

I did buy several new FuzziBunz inserts online today because I've been using the pre-folds inside and they are pretty bulky so that was an additional $45. (they were $4 each)

So, for less than $300 I am set! That's less than a whole year of disposables (if you are getting a good deal on every pack), and I'm not having to throw anything away!

I'm definitely not saying this is for everybody, but I am encouraging those of you who are sitting on the fence waiting to make the plunge. It's worth it! You can buy them new, you can get them used at consignment stores/sales, off of Craig's List and many of the major brands sell discounted ones as seconds for much cheaper.

I'm not an expert by any means; Rita, Emily and my mom can vouch for that (thanks for answering all my silly questions:), but I'll post how our first week has gone, tomorrow, to let you know what mistakes I've made so far and what has worked best for us.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Not Me Monday

I am always very careful when emptying the dishwasher, so I most certainly did NOT knock over a glass onto the floor, breaking it into tiny pieces all over the floor, just seconds before 3 extra little ankle biters were to walk into the house. That would NEVER happen to me. Only the kids (and Josh) do things like that!

And since we are talking about NOT being clumsy...

I most definitely did NOT knock over a freshly poured, FULL, cup of soda that I had been looking forward to all day. (besides, who actually "looks forward" to a soda anyway!) Nope, not me. I'd never spill a soda without even getting a sip! Especially 2 hours after NOT breaking a glass on the floor.

And since we are still on the topic of NOT being clumsy...

I always pay close attention while feeding Cai, so I would NEVER hold his bowl full of mushed-up bananas in reach of his greedy little fingers. Nope, I'd never be that clumsy. Especially if it was only 30 minutes after NOT spilling my soda all over the kitchen!

Therefore, I DID NOT have to pull my swiffer out for the third time in 3 hours. Nope, not me!

And, I DEFINITELY DID NOT start crying, with banana dripping down my legs and all around my feet and ask Josh to stay home from his camp this week. Nope not me. I always keep my composure in tact. I mean, who cries for their husband to stay home from work for a week because of spilled bananas anyway?!

Read some other "Not Me Monday" entries here:)

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Look What The UPS Man Dropped Off On My Doorstep

I'll give you a hint!

They come in different colors...
...they are adjustable...
...and they look super cute on Micaiah's booty.
We've made the switch to cloth!

Friday, June 25, 2010

Fun Facts For Friday - Updates

1 - Our best buds Jeremiah and Jenn are leaving THIS SUNDAY to go get their precious Eli from Ethiopia! I can't stop thinking about it and praying for them. I can't even begin to imagine how this must feel. Pray with me for them. I know they'd love to hear from you too!
2 - Well, the kids have been in the same room for 4 days now and there has been no catastrophy to speak of. They have done amazing! As a matter of fact, Cai gave me a grin when I showed him around his "new" room. I can tell they love all being together! They can even nap together without incidence too. We are shocked!

3 - Micaiah had been really fussy since last Saturday and started having a fever on Wednesday night. I'm thinking, "Oh great! He's got another ear infection so the garlic drops aren't working" and "His little necklace isn't working it's magic!" So, I took him to the doctor yesterday because his fever was spiking rapidly. Of course it was just a virus that they can't do anything for, but at least I know that there is nothing else I can do. Plus, I learned that his ears look great! I hadn't heard that from a doctor in several months!!! That means the garlic drops have done the trick and they really are working! No more ear infections for my little boy, woohoo!

4 - You may have seen on facebook and twitter that I had a little incident a couple of days ago involving boiling water and my stomach. I am pleased to announce that my 4 little pea-sized blisters are healing very nicely. Thanks to all my concerned friends out there;) I just have to add...Areyna came to me a little while after this happened and told me that she and Zeke stopped and prayed for my boo-boo to get better "real quick". Wow!

5 - Josh got back late afternoon yesterday from a camp. He said it went well. As a matter of fact we know of at least 23 kids who gave their life to Christ this week. Praise The Lord!!!

BONUS FACT: Josh's friend, Will Hughes, interviewed Josh on his blog about our ministry. It's a pretty cool little write-up. You should go check it out to see how our ministry has evolved:)

Happy Friday Ya'll!

Thursday, June 24, 2010

What Can You Do?

Zeke: "Mommy, I'm sorry."

Me: "Why baby?"

Zeke: "I accidentally poopied in the grass."

Me: silence...thinking...staring...still waiting for words to come out of my mouth...

Me: FINALLY "Uh...you mean you poopied in your pants?"

Zeke: "No, in the grass behind the playhouse in the backyard."

Me: silence again...followed by uncontrollable laughter!!!!

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There are just some times in the parenting journey when the only thing to do is laugh!

Busy Body

Micaiah took his first step on Tuesday
and it is now safe to say that he signs
"all done" and "more" pretty consistantly.
My little...I mean, "young", boy isn't so young anymore.
(he's not been "little" for a while! HA)

Micaiah has become quite a busy body around the house.
I've given up on straightened bookshelves,
and toys in their rightful places.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Words Of Wisdom - The TWO MEN In My Life

Me: "Zeke, you look so handsome!!!! I LOVE it when you wear real clothes. What made you go change and put real clothes on?"

Zeke: patting his chest - "My heart:)"

When Josh was leaving for his camp this week he told Zeke that he was the man of the house this week. We had one major "freak-out" that first day. I had a long talk to him about how he needed to be the man of the house. Not just a "big boy" for me. But a man. I told him how I can't run this house by myself when daddy is gone and that I needed him to be the man for me while daddy was gone.

That was all it took. He has been SO good this week.

I do realize that as soon as I write a blog about something my kid's have accomplished, they tend to turn around and do the opposite, but how can I not brag on my little man mowing the grass in REAL clothes and "fixing" things around the house and exercising and practicing his music and...sound familiar?!

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Out Of Necessity

Areyna and Zeke started out with separate rooms.

But, when we started traveling as a family, we quickly realized that, if we were going to make this work, we were going to have to make a change.

After an awful night, that we will never forget, we went home and went to work on rearranging the kid's rooms. After that trip our kids began sharing a room. It was an adjustment for sure, but one that I'll never regret.

Now we have 3 kids in the mix.

Micaiah has had his own room since he was born. But, after 10 months of traveling together, we have realized that Cai is a SUPER LIGHT SLEEPER! That just doesn't fly the night before we have to get up early and lead worship. Especially when both Areyna and Zeke are prone to talk, and walk, in their sleep.

After this weekend, and a rough Saturday night, we were forced to make a change at home. Which I don't mind at all. I love rearranging. It's home re-decorating with a $0 budget!

We talked to the kids about how we needed to help Micaiah learn how to sleep with other people in the room, and that we wanted to include them in this decision.

As soon as I asked Areyna if she'd like her own room she got a HUGE smile. Then I said, "OR you could share a room with Zeke AND Micaiah." Her smile grew even bigger and she was pumped.

Even after I asked if Zeke wanted an "all-boy room" he just couldn't seem to part with Rainy.

So, the next morning I went to work on the kids rooms.

BEFORE: Micaiah's room from the doorway
BEFORE: Micaiah's Room
BEFORE: Areyna and Zeke's room
I know...we still need to paint!
AFTER: Micaiah's room from the doorway
NOW the playroom/guest room
AFTER: Micaiah's room
NOW the playroom/guest room

This one takes a little imagination -
picture brown walls...eventually
AFTER: Areyna and Zeke's room
NOW all 3!
The play closet is now the changing room:)
The first night was a success. Micaiah woke up one time because of Zeke coughing and went right back to sleep after a minute or so.

Zeke got up and went to the bathroom around 7:30am so that woke Cai up but I didn't go in and get him until 8am even though he fussed off and on.

The tricky part is going to be keeping Areyna and Zeke sleeping until their normal 8:30-9am wake-up time when I have to feed Cai around 8am.

I won't complain though. I was prepared for a nightmare of a night. We'll see how day 2 goes.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Sometimes I Just Hurt When They Hurt

Areyna has become quite the bug/critter expert. Well, let me rephrase that, seeing as how they all end up being dead bugs/critters. She has become quite fond of God's little unique creations. We have had so many "pets" over the past couple of months in this house. Only a handful have survived, but they have all been deeply loved. The bug catcher has a permanent home on the desk in Rainy and Zeke's room. When the green sign goes under the door and the kids come walking down the hall Zeke always has his bubby and a bag. Areyna always brings her bug catcher to give an update on the livelihood of our newest family member.

A couple of days ago I found a baby tree frog in my garden that I caught for her. She absolutely LOVED it! He was pretty cute if I may say so. She carried him around the rest of the day and then he took residence on the desk through the night.

When Areyna walked down the hallway the next morning with tears in her eyes I knew we had a problem. She didn't say a word. Instead she just handed me the bug catcher with a shriveled up baby tree frog inside. I don't mean just a little shriveled up. I mean, he was about half the size he was the day before.

I mean, who knew tree frogs needed to be kept in water?!

All this just days after I accidentally smooshed her praying mantis while trying to re-catch him after Zeke knocked over the bug catcher. The critter-loving life is not a life for the tender-hearted. We have had too many losses to be able to bear.
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Zeke loves tools. He loves when Josh gets his own tools out to fix something. He'll run to his room and search out the same tool that Josh is using and go to work. He even comes out with the appropriate safety attire: goggles, hard hat and gloves (snow gloves, ha!).

Well, Josh has been slowly tackling the eyesore in our front yard this week and Zeke has been "helping". Zeke's gotten so into it that he'll get all ready to work in the yard before Josh will even get home from work. As soon as Josh walked in the door yesterday Zeke asked Josh to help him cut the tree some more=)

This picture were taken just moments before Zeke realized that his tools weren't cutting it...literally. He was absolutely devastated when his saw wasn't even making a dent in the limb. He kept saying "It's not working" through his sobs. It was SO sad!
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I know it may sound silly, but these seemingly small circumstances to us are huge to them and I can't help but hurt with them.

How much more do you think our Heavenly Father hurts over our hurts with us, even the little things.