After going off of my anxiety medication for this pregnancy I quickly realized that I was going to have to work extra hard at finding the triggers for my anxiety if I was going to be able to cope well as a pregnant mommy and wife.
Some of my triggers are just things that are necessary for our family to do to get by. One of those is couponing. Just thinking about the whole process that needs to be done to get a grocery list together was becoming overwhelming to me, though!
But, I needed to prioritize what was best for our family in this season in our lives. I had to decide to put my family and our sanity before saving a few bucks at the grocery store.
Couponing isn't bad. But getting anxious and overwhelmed just thinking about it IS! The solution...no pressure. Josh totally took the pressure off by confirming that if it made me anxious to get rid of it. Just hearing him say it took a load off my chest (as if he wouldn't support me otherwise...oh yea of little faith:).
I have continued to keep up with expired coupons and cutting and organizing them but with no strings attached. If I have time (and motivation) I'll get online and get my deals and grocery list ready, but there is NO pressure. Otherwise, I'll just make a grocery list the way I used to and go to the store with the cheapest prices. I just have to choose to buy less and make healthier choices with the money we do have.
It was hard to not feel guilty at first, but I am all about eliminating anxiety triggers to keep this baby healthy, not to mention my relationships with my other family members:)
I know that this is just a season and I'll be back on the couponing wagon again, but for now, I choose sanity and tranquility, ha!
What triggers your anxiety that you just have to choose to cut out of your life sometimes?